The 6 Consequences of Having a Mobile App Lover

The 6 Consequences of Having a Mobile App Lover

by Max Roberts

Let’s face it.  In the last 10 years, sex for many guys has been like a play station game. There are many players and it can be thrilling because you never know what will actually happen at the end of the game. The Virtual-reality game in play station called  “The Playroom” has been a big hit.   The popularity of Mobile applications for dating have been on the rise for older gay men  such as Grinder and alike . They are like ” the playroom” themselves and has also  been a huge sensation.   I admit it that having a mobile app lover can be fun and thrilling but  it brings real consequences as well  for you to consider.

These are the 6 consequences of having a Mobile app Lover :

 1) You will still be lonely after the 30 min confrontation is over.

Both you and your mobile app lover will depart and you may or may not see him again. Most likely, you won’t. He will and you will not want to miss out on another opportunity with someone else. The other guy might be even hotter!

2) You will not feel the real bond and closeness that a relationship brings .

Your mobile app lover  will not be there when you want to share an important event or when you are sick with a cold or when you had a bad day at work. There will still be emptiness around you-something lacking.

3) Using a mobile app continually , can make you an addictive personality.

I have known guys that were fun and could strike up conversations about any topic but are now glued to their phones and to their app. They are afraid they will miss out on a sex romp with a hot guy and leave their close friends and family behind. A person’s communication skills may diminish and he may not be able to relate to others in a true sense. His old personality begins to fade away. Sometimes it’s not about the sex, it’s the pictures. But pictures and sexting doesn’t bring meaningful conversations or  real relationships. You may not be  able to take your eyes off the app. You may spend your whole afternoon looking at  pixels and waiting and hoping for your mobile app lover to communicate with you .

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4) Your not Dating

Don’t fool yourself . It’s really hooking up instead of dating . The hook up is just straight sex and then you leave. Most men don’t even know the mobile app lover’s  first and last name, where are they from, their hobbies and interests. There is no real meaningful conversation. The question of asking him if he has or had an STD is never really brought up. A  real relationship will not blossom. Recently, I went to a few gay bars and clubs and many guys were  just  staring into their smart phone for Grinder profiles  instead of  having real conversations with people around them.  There seems to be greater anxiety of actually having a conversation with the person across from you than having a direct hookup.

5) Higher chance of becoming unfaithful if you’re in a relationship

In a recent  5,187 people study, age made a difference in the participants’ sexual activity, said researchers. As men aged, they had higher chances of becoming unfaithful in a relationship beyond Internet boundaries. They might not post a lot of pics but they will start sexting and go from there. The device doesn’t make one cheat but the temptations become stronger. You may become more fixated on getting a mobile app lover and  feel your missing out on the fun and go for it .

6) Your chances of getting an STD is higher.

According to a recent poll, 46.4% of gay men who have hooked up, admit to bare backing. 73% of gay men say they did it out of ” impulse”. Bare backing has been on the rise since the invention of the mobile app. A mobile app lover maybe  infected with HIV or another STD (even if they do not have any noticeable symptoms), and you could  become infected and get sick from these diseases. Getting sick from HIV/AIDS and other STDs is not something that I would wish on anybody. Please utilize condoms for prevention.

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In short, here at GayLifeAfter40.com, we respect the right for every person to do what they please. On occasion, we just want to be your inner voice .

Gay activists have fought long and hard for freedom of expression and openness. It took thousands of gay and lesbians to hold meeting, communicate and strategize.  One had to build bridges with others and make great strides and achievements. It certainly wasn’t made by thumbnail profiles  and GPS locations. It was having meaningful conversations and interactions.  I certainly hope that the fight wasn’t about this kind of  freedom of expression and thought. I think we can do better than this. Mobile Apps can be one way of meeting someone but not the entire social networking existence of the contemporary gay man. I admit  that having a mobile app lover can be fun and thrilling but  it brings real consequences as well  for you to consider. Be careful out there and keep on aging forward!

What are your thoughts? If you use mobile apps, are you mindful of some of these consequences?

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