Since the onset of the COVID-19 outbreak, governments across the globe have taken drastic measures to curb the spread of this virus. Among these measures is imposing movement restrictions, for instance, curfews and lockdowns on their citizens. This has seen people’s lives change as they try to adapt to the now, new normal. 

It’s no secret that all this is hard for everyone, especially if you are in a relationship. The regular sleepovers, date nights, are now far from possible due to the lockdown. Now that you have no choice but to spend most, if not all of your time alone, it’s easy to find yourself missing someone, especially if you have spent a considerable length of time together. Wondering how you can stay in touch with your boyfriend and keep the fire burning? Here are a few tips that could help.

1. Make the Communication Between You and Your Boyfriend More Vivid and Intimate

Anyone in a romantic relationship knows too well how communication is essential. Communication is the glue that holds any relationship together because, without it, the relationship is bound to come crumbling down. Sure, you know how to communicate with your partner, but you may be wondering how to keep it vivid and intimate, especially during this pandemic.

Of course, with messaging apps like WhatsApp, iMessage, you can easily reach out to your boyfriend since he is only a text away. But you will agree with me that nothing can beat seeing him smile, the sparkle on his eyes every time he sees you, or even seeing him shed a tear for one reason or another.

Since you cannot be afforded the opportunity of seeing your partner in person because of the lockdown, make an effort to Skype or FaceTime him as often as possible. This will help you feel his presence even more, and get you both excited for the next time you will see each other, therefore keeping the fire burning. It also helps you, and of course, him to know when something is wrong just by seeing the expression on their face or listening to their voice. Apart from that, it gives you a more comfortable platform to share everything; the good, bad, and the ugly, therefore building trust in your relationship.

2. Do Not Abandon Your Sex Life

At a time like this, it’s very easy for you and your boyfriend to forget about the sex side of your relationship. Well, thanks to technology, you can still keep that part of your relationship alive. With plenty of time in your hands, you get all creative and take advantage of technology.

This assures him that you are still thinking of him and that you are still sexually attracted to him. It’s also a great way to get him aroused without you being there, and of course, keep things interesting in your relationship. 

However, make sure to come to an agreement that he will delete those pictures afterward. After all, you never know what might happen in the future, so it’s better to be cautious about it.

3. Set Up Dates for You and Your Partner

You’re probably wondering how you will have a date with your boyfriend when you are miles apart. Thanks to the magic of technology, you can have dates with him, and make it intimate and fun.

Through Skype or FaceTime, you can set up a simple romantic dinner, and have him do the same, then go ahead and have it together. Make things a little bit more interesting by dressing up like you are going on an actual date. You can also set time aside and watch a movie together at the same time on Netflix.

4. Talk with Your Partner About the Future

As much as it’s hard to believe, this pandemic will soon be over. Therefore, talk about the future of your relationship with your boyfriend. It may be about getting a house together, or how you will go on a vacation together, or places you would like to go on dates together. This not only helps keep the relationship healthy but also acts as a source of comfort and hope during this trying time

Final thoughts?

Sure, the lockdown might have forced you and your boyfriend into having a long-distance relationship. But with these tips up your sleeves, you can make it a rather pleasant experience.