How Sex Changes After 40

How Gay Sex Changes After 40 by Jay Stewart

Gentleman, let’s ask the question that we’ve all been dreading.  You know, the one that we joke about with friends, but never really address.  The question – how gay sex changes after 40?  GayLifeAfter40.com is going to hold your hand, support you through this, and discuss 5 ways that gay sex after 40 changes. How sex changes after 40 is a guide for a more fulfilling way to  look at sex.

1. Sensitivity towards age after 40.

Remember that day, when you turned 20 and thought that your youth was gone?  How about the time that you turned 30 and figured that life was over?  Aging after 40 can be a constant dread as you march towards the grim reaper.  Or you can lighten up and realize that you’ve still got many years to go.  Plus, 40 is the new 20.  Sure, the first time that someone cute at the club guesses your age and is somewhat accurate may be shocking.  But you need to own it!  Let them know that you love being your age and plan to use your years of experience in the bedroom to your advantage.

2. Accepting your body after 40.

After 40, it’s time to start fully accepting the body that you have.  If you’ve won the gene pool and are naturally slim, then congrats.  The rest of it both envy and hate you.  As for those of us with love handles, learn to embrace them.  You can tell others that it means more to love and all those other expressions.  Confidence is key to life and certainly to having a great sex life.  If you’re trying desperately to hold onto the last few strands of hairs on your head, it’s not going to help.  Shave that head bald and learn that bald is truly beautiful and sexy.

3. Your sex drive can actually increase after 40.

We’ve all heard that our lady friends are in their sexual prime later on in life and that men putter out in their 20’s.  This is no longer true!  Likely, you’ve spent your 20’s in school, your 30’s getting serious about work, and now after 40, you can enjoy life.  With the concerns of finding a career out-of-the-way, you can focus on enjoying yourself at every moment.  The decrease in stress leads to a healthier body and mind.  For some, this can even lead to uncontrollable erections that seem to pop up during unexpected moments.  Don’t freak out!  Embrace this newfound excitement and use it to your advantage.

4. Communicating expectations after 40

The world of relationships and hook ups can get confusing after 40.  Have you decided to play lone wolf for life? Are you desperate to settle down, buy dogs, and a log cabin?  Be sure that prior to having sex that you have communicated your expectations with the other person.  There’s nothing worse than dealing with another confusing post sex chat about where things are going and realizing that you greatly differ.  We’ve all dealt with enough broken hearts or awkward silences by this point to know that it’s best to be open about our expectations.

5. After 40, you may need medication.

We all hope to be in our sexual prime for life.  This can be your reality.  Your reality may also be that you require medication to assist you in the bedroom.  There’s no shame in getting the appropriate assistance.  What’s shameful is denying yourself and potential partners of a sexual experience.  Plus, recognize that just because you have an issue once, it doesn’t mean that’ll happen every time.  Visit your medical practitioner regularly and you’ll be aware of any potential health issues.  Gay sex after 40 is happening across the world at every moment of the day.  You, too, should be enjoying it.

BONUS TIP:  Gay sex after 40 may be different.

If you’re over 40, there’s a good chance that you may have been sexually active for 20+ years.  That’s a long time of doing the same sexual positions on repeat.  Don’t be surprised, if the actual acts of gay sex may change for you.  You may discover that you’re no longer interested in doing positions that never satisfied you at all.  Being a top or a bottom may start to get old to you. You may finally opt into exploring fetishes that have always intrigued you.  It’s time to pursue the internet and purchase that leather jock that’s always excited you.  Better yet, visit your favorite neighborhood erotic store and use their expertise to assist you.

Gay sex exists after the age of 40!  GayLifeAfter40.com hopes that this doesn’t come as a shock to you.  Instead, we want this to excite you.  We want you to gain confidence by removing the sensitivity over your age.  We want you to strut that body of yours into every situation and let others take notice.   We want you enjoy any increases in your sex drive to the absolute fullest.  We want you to learn to be up front and honest with your partners to ensure for a mutually pleasurable experience. We want you to accept that medicine exists for all health reasons including sexual one’s.  Finally, we definitely want you to revel in the enjoyment of exploring all your sexual interests after 40.

Please utilize safe sex with a condom to avoid STD/ AIDS .  Know your sexual partners. Keep on Aging Forward!

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