Uncensored: ” I’m Thinking of Calling a Gay Escort”

By Jay Stewart

Gay Escorts – Bad idea or not?

You’ve seen their ads in the back of your favourite gay magazine or adorning the sides of your most visited gay website. No, I’m not here to discuss the good and the bad of erection pills. At Gay Life After 40.com, we want to discuss things that we know that maybe is on your mind, but rarely talked about it with friends or family. Today, I want to talk about gay escorts. I’m not going to speak about the perspective of being a gay escort, their secrets to success, if they think it’s deprave as we perceive on the outside. Nope, I’m going to look at it from the perspective of the client. After 40, one still has needs, is it a bad idea or not to have them fulfilled by a gay escort?

Be Clear On Your Reason For Hiring

Check yourself before you waste the time of a gay escort. There are plenty of good reasons to hook up with a gay escort just as many bad reasons for doing so. You’re tired of dating, you’re looking for a one night, or you want to do it with a professional. A bad reason is that you randomly decide that you want to try it. You visit a gay escort website, you browse through some listings, find the one you like, and then get in contact. You talk to them, you get along, you book an appointment, and then you get cold feet. Now how would you feel if you were booked for an appointment and the person simply backed out at the last minute? This is why, you need to be clear about your reasons for wanting to hire a gay escort. If you are not clear and you are frightened by the prospect..do not seek one out. Just fantasize about it.

Emotional Headspace

I really want you to challenge any negative thoughts that you have about gay escorts. They’re substance abusers, come from broken homes, filled with STDs, etc. If you’re thinking about all this stuff, how can you possibly enjoy the experience? Instead, focus on the potential positives of the experience. Once you get yourself into that headspace, then you’re ahead of the game. You won’t waste time with nerves, you’ll arrive for your appointment ready to be your self. You’ll be comfortable, it’ll make them comfortable, and you’ll both get what you want from the experience. You should discuss their testing prior to the appointment and get the date of their last test. Testing does not guarantee that today that they may not have an STD.

Clear Your Physical Judgment

When you’re gay after 40, it can mean that there are some dry spells in your life. You’ve either screwed your way through all your options or lost interest in dating completely. This can lead to a Saturday night, where you make a decision that you’ll likely regret later. If this is you, then I suggest partaking in a release test. It’s simple and involves something that you’ve done for decades. If you really want to hire a gay escort, masturbate about it. If after your personal love session, you still think it’s a good idea, then do it. The last thing you want to do is go through the effort of finding an escort, having sex, regretting it, and then waking up in the morning wishing you had those few hundred bucks back.

Know What You Want

Like most things in life, if you know what you want, you’re more likely to get it. Being gay after 40 means that you should be aware of what you like sexually. No reason to be shy, this is the time to talk about your likes, dislikes, and any fantasies. Be mindful that the gay escort has the right to deny any and all requests. If you’re clear up front about where you’d like your encounter to go, it’ll lead to less disappointment in the long run.

Be Safe

If you wouldn’t hook up with a guy on Grindr without using protection, then why would you with a gay escort? As well, play the part of an online gay sleuth. Read their reviews, see if they’re on social media, and verify that their photos are indeed recently. By doing all this, you can ensure that you won’t show up and be disappointed. For your personal safety, you might want to let a key friend know what’s going on. If anything, this may help you to reduce your anxiety about the experience. If you do not feel comfortable once you meet, call it off. He may not  look totally like his pictures. He may look sick or crazed. Just walk away. The location should be in a nice place. 5 Star Hotels are great. They make the moment more special but more importantly there are cameras around the hotel which could help you if your with a escort that decides they want more than just a romp. Meeting at a rundown motel would be suspect–just saying.

Here at gaylifeafter40.com, we’re not here to play the part of the morality police. Consenting sex between adults is  your own business. Whether you want to hire a gay escort or not is a decision solely up to you. We do not believe in breaking any laws . We know that it is an option that is out there and we must at least discuss it. If we did not discuss it, then we are not being genuine. It is an uncensored subject because we know you see ads out there in different social media sites. We want to arm you with ways to think about sex and not make a rash decision.  We just want you to be emotionally and physically conscious of why you’re doing it, be clear about what you want out of the experience, and of course, that you’re safe while doing it.

Do you think it is a good idea or not to call a gay escort? Please leave your comments below.