Dont worry about Your Manhood

By Max Roberts

Years ago, I once dated a man, Mike,  that had only a 4 inch penis. He was a virgin and never had gay sex before. I laughed as I saw it, which was so immature of me, and I proclaimed to him that he will be a bottom the rest of his life.  I was so stupid and wrong  because my idea of what size a penis should be was largely fueled by pornography. Monster cocks with a continual hard on came the standard in my head — which skewed my judgement of what exactly is ‘average’, along with the fact most men don’t often hang it all out– all at one time.. together .

While statistics show that  the average size among men is 5.5-6.3 inches, surveys using data collected from men (and not science) imply the norm is approximately an inch bigger. Clearly one side is lying, and odds are it’s not the doctors.

While, I was being an asshole, Mike actually was one of my greatest lovers I ever had. He actually topped me more than I topped him. It wasn’t the size of the penis or how hard it was inside me. It was all the attention before intercourse.

The right combination of foreplay and stimulation can make a man worship a small penis or a semi hard one  just as readily as a large one.

As I have gotten older, I really can’t seem to get my stuff as firm as it used to be. I focus  more on the foreplay and do not worry so much about the size or firmness of my penis. It seems to work for me and I thank Mike for that!

Focus on foreplay

Regarding foreplay don’t limit yourself to the old standbys. Not if you want to really rock his world. Toss in some sexy pillow talk to start. Give him a sensual massage with unique oils and senses , and be sure to have his favorite sex toys on hand.  You may also want to stimulate the anal area .

If he’s a bit kinky, you may want to try some sensual biting or even a bit of a spanking. The key here is to lavish him with the kind of attention you know he responds well to; you want to get him to be so aroused that he will cum fairly quickly after you insert your not so stiff stuff in him. He will be begging for it. . In short, the closer he is to cum at the start of actual penetration, the easier it will be for him to achieve climax via with a  semi- hard or small penis .

Gay and Lesbians enjoy oral sex, mutual masturbation, fondling , body rubbing and/ or role playing.

Frottage is the general term for the act of rubbing any part of the body, including the buttocks, the breasts, abdomen, thighs, feet, hands, legs and sexual organs against the sexual organ of another person. With  Frottage one is in an  “equal”  playing field with his/ her partner because of mutual stimulation and more of an intimate experience.

Intercrural sex (from “inter-” and Latin “crura”, legs),  is a type of non-penetrative sex, in which a male places his penis between his partner’s thighs (often with lubrication), and thrusts to create friction.

You can also learn more about intercrural sex and frottage which goes into greater detail with this link:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-penetrative_sex.

If you’re over 40, there’s a good chance that you may have been sexually active for 20+ years.  That’s a long time of doing the same sexual positions on repeat.  Don’t be surprised, if the actual acts of gay sex may change for you.  You may discover that you’re no longer interested in doing positions that never satisfied you at all.  Being a top or a bottom may start to get old to you. You may finally opt into exploring fetishes that have always intrigued you.  It’s time to pursue the internet and purchase that leather jock that’s always excited you.  Better yet, visit your favorite neighborhood erotic store and use their expertise to assist you.

Gay sex exists after the age of 40!  GayLifeAfter40.com hopes that this doesn’t come as a shock to you.  Instead, we want this to excite you.  We want you to gain confidence by removing the sensitivity over your age.  We want you to strut that body of yours into every situation and let others take notice.   We want you enjoy any increases in your sex drive to the absolute fullest.  We want you to learn to be up front and honest with your partners to ensure for a mutually pleasurable experience. We want you to accept that medicine exists for all health reasons including sexual one’s.  Finally, we definitely want you to revel in the enjoyment of exploring all your sexual interests after 40.

Please utilize safe sex with a condom to avoid STD/ AIDS .  Know your sexual partners. Keep on Aging Forward!

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