The 3rd Law Of Attraction

The 3rd Law of Attraction

You Get What you Give
by Ramon Johnson Published from About.com Gay Life

Newton’s Third Law of Motion dictates that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Some schools of thought hold the same notion in relation to our attractions. We get, they say, exactly what we put out there. In other words, the type of energy or vibe we project is exactly what we get in return.

Our projected vibe isn’t always obvious–to our eye, anyway.  We may think we have an in-it-to-win-it attitude, only to live the same man-on-man nightmares over and over again.  Or despite our irresistible charm, looks or wit, men resist us like the opposite end of a magnet.  The energy we project is invisible to us, but men seem to pick it up like a natural force.  They can tell if we are insecure despite our best efforts in hiding it.  They can see the desperation in our eyes with the power of a powerful g-ray vision.  They can also see our happiness and confidence gleaming from a bar away.  Ever notice how when you’re feeling hot, others seem to make eye contact?

Take comfort, the laws of attraction work both ways. Remember the opposite reaction part? I’m sure you recall that one guy that was a complete turn-off for no particular reason (or at least no reason you can consciously identify)?  At first glance, he seemed datable, but later you discovered that the vibe just wasn’t there.  Compatibility plays a large role in connections; the energy we project is a major part of compatibility.

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Most of us fail to realize, however, that each of us has complete control over the forces surrounding our attractions.  We have the power to change others’ reactions towards us by using Newton’s Third Law and changing our own actions.  As a degreed techie, I know that understanding Newton’s law is much easier than putting it into practice.  The good news is that it’s not impossible.  A change in our attitude and approach can change what we get back in return.

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Ramon Johnson

With over ten years experience in digital journalism and new media field, Ramon has dedicated his career to advance the equal representation of disadvantaged and underrepresented peoples.

Experience:

In 2008, Ramon was named ‘GLBT Person of the Year’ by GayAgenda and in 2009, Gay Life at About.com was selected as ‘Best Gay Lifestyle Blog’ by BestGayBlogs.com. Ramon was regular speaker at youth diversity organization Live Out Loud Reciprocity Foundation, and a youth mentor at The Ali Forney Center, an LGBT homeless youth service organization. He was named one of Clik Magazine’s 25 Most Influential Gay African-Americans in media for his contributions to the LGBT community and has been a guest gay lifestyle expert on Proper Television’s “TV Made Me Do It,” Q Television’s “On Q Live,” “The Derek and Romaine Show” on Sirius Satellite Radio and New York’s Power 105 morning radio show