The Dating Game

The Dating Game

by William Smith

The Dating Game is really a game of probability. It is truly a numbers game. The more, you immerse yourself in various venues, the chances of coming up with dates and the probability of finding Mr. Right. Dating beyond the bar or web can actually be accomplished by writing down some of your likes, dislikes and values and aligning yourself with the stars by meeting guys at various venues that mirror those values and interests.

1. Go to your local GLBT Resource Center . By getting involved in the community, you will build a network of friends and maybe a Mr. Right. There are happy hours, event planning where a group of like minded people can share their thoughts and interests.

2. Go to an Art Event. They are very gay friendly venues that offer creativity and a chance to communicate your thoughts and creativity.  There are gallery events in most cities. If you like music, there are several gay men choruses around.

3, Attend locale charity events such as HIV/ Aids or a group pertaining to politics. These people are connected to causes and are very social conscience.

4. Join a Gay Sports Group esp. sports that seem to be liked by mature men like Golfing, Bowling, Sailing, etc .

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5. Become active in a gay church. Join the choir. be a reader, be the social event coordinator or just show up.

6.  Join a Gardening Club for those gardeners that love to talk about plants and  that work together on special projects.

7. Join a locale Gay Meet up Group or create one yourself that specifically caters to what you like to do.

8.  Network with friends and families. They know they ” real you” and may know someone who fits the bill regarding interests, and emotional needs. But you must tell them that you are looking; otherwise, they may think your content being single.

These are just a few suggestions. Do not get discourage if you don’t find your future husband right away. Along the way, you will make friends and learn more about yourself. You may break a heart or two or have your own heart-broken, but do not give up. Immerse yourself in Life. Keep on moving and aging forward with resiliency and strength . The odds are in your favor if you play the Dating Game!

As Alfred Lord Tennyson put it :

‘Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all.

For those who have more ideas , please communicate your thoughts and ideas. I look forward to your responses.